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Of course Santa Claus really exists - but some people will never be convinced

21 Dec, 2008 12:00 AM

NO, VIRGINIA, there isn't a Santa Claus.

An apparent trend among adults to tell small children Santa Claus doesn't exist is "tantamount to child abuse", according to a leading child psychologist.

Studies have found that some parents and teachers refuse to play along with the fantasy because they consider it lying to children.

In Britain, where a teacher has been sacked for telling her class of seven-year-olds that Santa doesn't exist, an Anglia Ruskin University study found many teachers avoided mentioning Santa in the classroom for fear of fostering a lie and that many parents were afraid their children could be psychologically traumatised by learning the truth.

Internet sites advising parents to tell toddlers the awful truth claim that destroying the illusion spares kids the stress caused by conflict with peers who no longer believe, grief about the loss of Santa from their lives and resentment towards their parents for lying to them.

However, child psychologist Michael Carr-Gregg said a little yuletide porkie does no harm.

"All children need to have that fantasy, that magic in their lives," DrCarr-Gregg said. "When they grow older and realise Santa isn't true, is there any evidence in the psychological literature that they're traumatised? None whatsoever.

"We have to ask ourselves: 'What do you want your grandchildren to tell their grandchildren about what Christmas was like with you?' We have so few rituals and traditions left, so few rites of passage for children. It's a sign of the times that we're rejecting anything that isn't to do with the material world. That's incredibly sad.

"A lot of parents are so caught up with making ends meet that they don't have time for this sort of stuff. People are just too busy, and that's going to have a very sad effect long term.

"It's going to take away that sense of meaning families have that makes Christmas so special. If that goes, we're in trouble."

Liz Evans, who has been training department store Santas for 20 years, couldn't agree more.

She recalled how upset her four-year-old niece was when, on announcing to her kindergarten class that she had met Santa, was told by her teacher: "There's no such thing as Santa. Get over it!"

"The world is getting more cynical," Ms Evans said.

"People concentrate on negatives too much. Times are so much harder than they were 20 years ago and kids feel that. But kids are still kids and they want to believe. Who doesn't want to go off into a fantasy-land? Given half an opportunity, who wouldn't?

"Kids are a lot smarter, and it's also a lot harder to be Santa than it was 20 years ago.

"In working with children, checks have been instigated, which is a must in today's society. We have a training manual of about 60 pages and one of the questions children will ask is 'Are you the real Santa?' The answer is 'No, I'm Santa's helper.' And when kids sit on Santa's knee, Santa's hands must be visible at all times."

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